1st Treatment today!

Well, today was the 1st lymphedema treatment for both my legs. It feels very much like a Tens Unit does, but in a bigger scale. I have to go for 1 hour, 3 days a week for the next 9 weeks. Please please say a prayer for me that it helps get the fluid out of my legs. If it doesn't, the orthopedic doc will not do my knee replacements.

I am at a critical state as my knee on the right side keeps giving out causing me to fall. And with my osteoporsis, that is NOT a god thing. I fell a few days ago and hurt my right shoulder again. This is the same shoulder I had surgery on a few years ago and have a screw in. I see the orthopedic doc next week to see how bad I screwed it up. The really bad part is, now that my shoulder is in such bad shape, I cannot use my cane. UGH!!! 

This morning I had a really hard time in the shower and being stable I told Greg it's time to get a shower / tub seat. So my doc writes the prescription, and we go to the med supply store only to find out my insurance won't pay for it and it's $120.00 for the one to fit my tub. Their reason is a tub/shower seat is not considered medical equipment. But they will pay thousands of $$$ for an emergency room visit when I fall in the shower again like I did in december. Doesn't make much sense really. I also saw a walker at the med supply store that I thought would be better for me. It's the kind with a seat, so when I get tired or dizzy I can sit down. And the insurance will pay for the expensive walker. Go figure, they feel it's important for me to be mobile, but not important for me to take care of daily hygene. Something wrong with that picture!

But, I guess I really shouldn't complain as Humana has been very good to me over the past few years. And aside from a very expensive arthritis drug, this is the only other thing they wouldn't pay for. So if you are on medicare and looking into a medicare replacement policy I really suggest you look into Humana. I pay a bit extra each month for the policy I have, but it's worth every dime. ( I have the Humana Choice PPO policy)

I also got fitted for ankle braces today. With my knees being so unstable my ankles are giving me trouble. They cast my feet and ankles, and the braces will be specially made for me. They will be made out of leather and will be able to fit in my shoes, so since I live in pants/jeans, no one will be able to see them. I like that! :)

The arthritis is starting to deform my feet as well, and doc said I will probably have to look into specially made shoes. She gave me a catalog and I was shocked! They are really nice-normal looking shoes! But hopefully I can wait a while with those....

So I bored you enough with my med update, so I'll sign off for now. Wanna bake some brownies to take to doc's office tomorrow. Have a great day, and stay cool! ;)

Happy Monday everyone!

I was struggling about a phone call I knew I needed to make today. It is the one year anniversary of our dear friend Mary's death, and I needed to call George (her husband) and check on him and see how he is. He puts on a good front most days, but I knew today would be tough for him. Greg talks to him often, but I don't see him much. I was dreading the call. Mary was so good to me and treated me like a daughter. And Papa George is family to us. So instead of stressing I just made the call. And I am so glad I did. We had a long conversation and he is doing better than I expected today. He spoke alot about Greg as they have known each other for a long time. Over 20 years. And Papa George is thrilled that we are getting married. He has promised he will come for dinner and visit our kitties (they adore him), and I look forward to that.

Greg just arrived home. Strange for him to come at lunch time. He has shut down for today, and sent his help home. The cedar mill is closed because of the heat, so Greg will not be taking a load to the mill tomorrow as planned. It is 100 degrees now at 12:10 pm and heat index is 108. Way too hot to be working outside and wrestling with trees and logs. He is exhausted and over-heated, and I'm so thrilled he has come home early and not pushed himself as he is known to do.

He brought home a yummy surprise for me. 12 bottles of DaVinci Syrups. If you love coffee, you know DaVinci. Coffee shops put these syrups in the coffee to flavor them. Now, I have seen the small bottle for sale at close to 9.00 each. These are the 25 oz bottles. And he bought them for 3.54 each. We have a salvage grocery store here in town and we love it. They get stuff that is a little outdated, or maybe a few cans in the case were dented so the whole case gets marked down really low. Many things are imported stuff from Europe, and I love that. But you have to stock up when they have it as they rarely get the same thing in twice. Anyway, a couple weeks ago they had Irish Cream and English Toffee and I picked up those. Then they had blackberry, mango, orange, strawberry, and cinnamon. I tried some of the blackberry in my iced tea and wow it was yummy. So, Greg bought all they had. Then I tried some mango and it was yummy in my tea as well. So, Greg bought 9 bottles (all that they had left) of the mango one cinnamon, one strawberry syrup and one orange to try. I was thinking combining the strawberry and the mango together would be yummy in iced tea. But strawberry added to hot chocolate or even cinnamon added to hot chocolate would be awesome. Adding the strawberry may remind me of chocolate covered strawberries. Mmmmmmmmm.
Would like to try them in baking or in my candy making as well. I will let you know how my experiments turn out. ;0)

My sweetie spoils me, doesn't he? So, I have lots of yummy syrups for coffee or tea for my friends and family when they visit. :)  The tea is brewed and chilling, and the coffee pot is on, so c'mon over!

I have been busy working on Christmas projects that will go up on Etsy and Artfire soon. I have gravitated back to floral/natural designing which is my first love. I am still designing craft printables, but I have lost interest at the moment. I HATE loading the files to my website as it is quite the project to get my mind around when fibrofog is telling me yeah right! You want to do what???? I like the designing part. I HATE
the website stuff. I have a website for the floral stuff as well, but what a pain in the ass that is too. I'm thinking I need to look into a different program aside from Zencart. But until then, I will be using other ways to sell (hopefully) my wares. I'll be posting photos soon. Let me know what you think please! Now I have got to get my but in my craft room and get some stuff done. Have a happy day!  Love and xoxoxoxo   M

Woo hoo! It's friday!!

How can you not be happy when it's friday? I love fridays. Always have. When I was a working girl (NOT that kind!) friday reminded me that the week was about done. When I was a stay at home mom, I looked forward to my sons being home for the weekend. And now, it means Greg will be home a bit on the weekend. I look forward to every moment we spend together. He is truely the love of my life. I know you are probably tired of hearing about it, but I never tire of speaking about it.

A friend of mine lost the love of her life last week. It was unexpected and sudden and she is devastated. She told me she always told him she loved him and they spent every minute they could together. And I found myself questioning why the good ones always go. Another friend lost her love a few years back as well. They were only married a short time before he passed away. But he was the love of her life as well. Again, I asked why do the good ones get taken away??  Pretty stupid question really. I mean, why would our Lord want the BAD ones???

When I look at young people today and how they treat their mates it really disturbs me. I see so much selfishness and so little love and caring that I don't understand it at all. Greg and I love each other deeply. And we show it every day. And we say it every day. More than once a day. There is nothing more important to me than to make sure he feels loved. That he knows it. That if I die tomorrow there won't be any doubt that I loved him to the very soul of my being.

There are people we know that are fighting daily. Drama and yelling and nastiness on an hourly basis that tears their family apart. Why? Life is too damn short. One never does a single thing for the other. Always me me me and never the other person. Their partner comes home from work and the other is out the door for some "me time." How can anyone ever be happy like that?? If they want "me time" why have a spouse? Why have children? Don't get me wrong. All couples and parents need some down time. I get that. But not to the extreme where the down time is way more than family time.
And it's not just these people that we know. I see it all over the place. And it's something I can't deal with. It is so simple to have a kind word for another person. To do something nice for another. There have been times where I have actually thought of looking into doing a class or something to teach some of these young women some REAL life skills. Like how to cook. How to budget, How to care for others instead of only themselves. You know, the basic life skills. Where have we gone wrong that our children have to learn earth science and biology and algebra but not how to balance a checkbook? That they have to know how to write a five thousand word essay about something so incredibly useless instead of learning simple home economics? How is it that they think the way to stretch the budget is to bounce a check and pay it later? That being able to party out of town is more important than taking care of bills? This generation is so screwed up. Oh, I know not all young couples are this way. But I have to tell you, I am really glad I am not raising kids anymore. In this rude texting in your face I only care about me world I would never make it.
As you know, I am disabled and can't work so, keeping the house clean, taking care of the household by doing all I can to keep the utilities as low as possible, cooking healthy meals that Greg and I both enjoy (not out of a box thank you), saving as much money on grocery shopping etc, and caring for the animals are all things I do. And do so gladly. It is my "job," and I take pride in it. I can't help but wonder how is it possible that so many young women want to be stay at homes, but do not feel like they need to care for their partners, children, homes, etc???? That they do not take pride in it??? And even though I take care of most of the household stuff, Greg still helps. He doesn't come home and put his feet up with a paper and his coffee and expect to be waited on (like my ex did). If I am not feeling well he cooks. Does laundry. He cleans the cat boxes daily, and whatever else will make my day easier and not increase my pain level.  And when he comes home and is tired and in pain from his back or knee problems, I take care of him and whatever he needs. That's what people do. Well, I thought that .....but some people seem to think that once you have your partner you don't have to do a single thing anymore to keep that love going. WRONG! This is how marriages/relationships end. What ever happened to the "do unto others as you would have them do unto you' way of living? I don't know. Maybe my bad health has made these things so much more important to me. But I have always known you have to bring love into your relationship every single moment. You can't sit back and take your partner or family for granted!  I have a partner (he will be my husband later this year!!!) that loves me and shows it. And tells me as much as I tell him. Well, almost. ;0) I cannot even fathom not doing things for Greg to make him happy and feel loved. It's that important to me. How difficult is it to meet your love at the door with a big kiss when he comes home. Or just call him or her just to say I love you. To put a note in his wallet, car, jacket, etc and say you can't wait til he gets home.  A little love goes a long way. And not just for your partner/spouse. Your kids, siblings, parents, etc. Forget about your "me me me" and try doing something for someone else for a change. It will change your life!

Have a wonderful friday everyone. Love and blessings,  Marlene  OXOXOXOX